RabiaReciprocity as community foundation

When unwanted help creates obligation anxiety

My elderly neighbor shovels my sidewalk every time it snows even though I never asked him to and now I feel guilty every time it snows because I cannot reciprocate his physical labor.

The deeper question

Unasked-for generosity can burden recipients with reciprocity debts they never agreed to carry.

Concept: unsolicited reciprocity

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